Insiders as "les Pédés"

Some men are vile for they can't keep 'it' in there. I am constantly worried about the rise of pedophiles and what society can do to protect young girls like wise young boys from these sharks. What age does one start telling children about the men who appear "nice"? The tendency of these "pedes" as referred to in Cameroon is that they oft veil their atrocious acts by being overtly nice. Behind this 'niceness' are hidden uncontrolled emotions making attempts to groom and devour the flesh of young girls and boys alike. Lame men who cannot stand for themselves. With hindsight of a case around my neighbourhood in Nitop, I can say a few things about pedophiles.

1) They are often family members, close neighbours, friends who would sometimes do anything for your child. Yes, they are the ones who would opt to give them what you would ordinarily not obtain for them.

2) They would flash them with the little extra cash that you do not give

3) At the least opportunity and left with the child alone, they will abuse.

So what's to be done?

1) With the birth of advanced technology it becomes an easier task for these vile men who won't man up and face women to pose as a threat to children. They will download pictures of your children and save, and could use these pictures in future as means to show of the close bond that exists between you (parent) and them since childhood. They'll proof to your children that you sent them emails of pictures since they were born. Saying this to your child and showing emails sent by you to them is often aimed at keeping your child at ease and to make the child trust them. Once they've achieved this, then the abuse could commence and the child may seem to think it is 'okay' for him to do so. My suggestion is that you should talk to your children early enough about these pedophiles. I take it to the extreme to tell my daughters that apart from their grandma, no one on planet earth has received a picture of them from me. No one. So if they're a tidbit sensible, they'd realise that the so-called nice uncle, is a predator.

2) Teach your child to speak up and always seek means to engage in a communication about the people they talk to. If anyone tells them not to say something to mama or papa, that person may be up to something dangerous.

Kindly share your thoughts for it is our silence on subjects like these that see the rise of pedophiles.